But first, a little flashback to
last year. |
GK is a refuge for poor people who
need homes. Concrete 1-room row houses financed by donations provide
high-density shelter for families large and small. Each home is about 20
ft. x 20 ft. |
In 2010, some homes were still under construction, but many were
completed. |
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The fronts of the homes (above right) face a wide alleyway
divided by a planter, whereas the backs of the homes faces muddy narrow
unpaved alleyways (right) where laundry dries slowly in the humid air. We explained vasectomy to Angela (above
right), who had had 11 children, with hopes that she would inspire her
husband to come for a vasectomy later that day when he returned from
work as a putt-putt (bicycle with a passenger seat) driver. Some
tenants managed to procure a few wood panels to create a barrier between
the living area and the one "bedroom", but most just hung a curtain. If
there was a bed, it was tiny. Most tenants just slept on thin blankets
or mats. |
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There were some electronics, but electricity was sporadic and many
electronics did not work and seemed to be retained more as ornaments
than for their functional value. No units had running water, so
tenants made regular trips to the community well, and a few units (below
left) had old water coolers to serve as storage receptacles for the
well-water. |
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Children were everywhere. Here they feast hungrily on some plain bread
that we purchased from a vendor during our visit. |
Most families had 4 or more
children. Angela's family had 11 children all living and sleeping in her
tiny home. We left the women of GW with an open invitation to send
their husbands to the nearby hospital for vasectomies, simple procedures
that would provide more control over their family sizes. They explained
that their husbands might refuse for fear of pain or loss of sexual
function, but when we mentioned that we were offering each man $20 US to
cover transportation costs and 2 days of lost income, their eyes
brightened. |
While we were visiting GW, our support staff was busy orienting the
staff and counseling the patients. By the time we arrived, the men were
waiting. |
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We quickly went to work, 3 NSVI surgeons sharing 3 tables in a single
operating room. |
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After their procedures, some patients were kind enough (and proud
enough!) to pose for a group photo. They were also delighted to
receive $20. For some men, that's 2 weeks' pay. |
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The nursing staff and students were
also delighted with the photo op and the hospital director (blue/green
top) was pleased to have offered his facility as a site for such a
productive mission. |
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Later that day we returned to Gawad Kalinga.
Angela was still holding her newborn baby and was proud of her husband
(red shirt) for having his vasectomy earlier that day. He was feeling
just fine!
So for them, 11 it will be. No more. An opportunity to
focus on and nurture the children that they already have, and to enjoy
sex without fear of another pregnancy, which, at this point, could pose
a serious risk to her health. |
Now, back to 2011: |
We returned to
Gawad Kalinga one year later, this time with the filmmakers who are
preparing a documentary on Male Involvement in Family Planning and World
Population Issues. It was a weekday and the men were off working, some
locally, some overseas. |
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Angela was still there, but this
time without a newborn, and she wasn't pregnant again! |
Now she had time to tend her own
garden. |
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Community leader Juanita (blue
shirt) also brought us to see Anita (pink shirt) ... |
... and Malinda, all of whose
husbands had undergone vasectomy by us last year. Malinda had had 3
children and her one room living area looked like a school room with a
little worktable and ABCs on a bulletin board (I wish I had taken a
photo). |
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And there was a 4th young mother (4
children, green shirt) whose husband had opted for vasectomy last year. |
They were all so pleased with the
freedom granted by their husbands vasectomies. Other women asked if
their husbands could have vasectomies. |
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Since we were not using the nearby
hospital in Talisay this year, arrangements were made by Juanita for us
to perform vasectomies in the recreation room of GK, but the proposal
was stifled by Couples For Christ, an organization with a big influence
in the community. |
We felt good for the children whose
parents could now be focused more on them than on competing younger
siblings. |
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One last photo (myself, social
worker/vasectomy promoter Frohnie, flimmaker Jonathan Stack, vasectomy
provider Dr. Ronald Suarez, filmmaker Saralena Weinfield, vasectomy
provider and NSVI President Dr. Ramon Suarez) ... |
... before a huge Good-Bye from the
families of GK, the most grateful recipients of NSVI Free Vasectomy
Services in the Philippines. |